Title: Phone Sex Question: I would like to know whether i am committing a sin by talking to my finacee intimetly over the phone,intimetley i mean we make each other climax ,plz tell me if it is haram what we are doing or not.wasllaam Answer: The Shari'ah (i.e. Islamic Law) does not mention this directly. However, in the spirit of Islamic teachings one can see that this type of behavior is unbecoming of a Muslim. Though it may seem harmless it could evolve into something more serious if you get around each other. To avoid this try to contain yourselves until you are married. You do not want to allow yourself to fall into sin by allowing yourself to weaken progressively. Try your best to be patient in the end you may find that it pays off far more than you think. I hope I have clarified the issue. God knows best. Ronnie Hassan July 18, 2005